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This is the time to start thinking about Who You Are. This article will help you to figure out who you are, and what you have to offer a woman. First step: describe yourself. What would you say? Well, a good start is a physical description.
So that’s what you will do now. Get a pen and start writing.
Write a physical description of yourself. Include your age, height, weight, physical build, and personality. Be sure to describe who you ARE, and not who you think you are, or who you think you should be.
Build a realistic description of who YOU are and what you represent. Be honest with yourself, and go with your first impulses. Don’t leave out your weaknesses, but also be positive and look for your strong points. Don’t risk compromising your self-expression and confidence by only listing out all your inadequacies and hang-ups.
Such a list is self-defeating, whereas focusing on your positive traits will make you feel better about who you are; and when you feel better about yourself, you’ll feel more relaxed and confident around women, too.
Women sense this, and they’ll feel good being around you. Take a look at these questions. Answer them honestly.
1. Are you reliable, honest, funny, educated, shy or outgoing, practical or uninhibited?
2. Do you have a large social group of friends and co-workers, or do you like to spend time with just one or two important people?
3. What have your past relationships with women been like? Who ends them? Why?
4. What is your current financial status?
5. What are your religious and political views?
6. What beliefs and values do you live by? Now, this next group of questions is more important. You should spend a little more time on your answers.
7. What activities do you enjoy?
8. What are you interested in?
9. What are your hobbies, if any?
10. Are you happy in your career, or would you like to learn new skills and change jobs?
11. Who or what would you like to become?
12. If you could do anything to spend your time, what would you choose to do?
Write this down while the ideas are spontaneous and instinctual. Your first impulses are more likely to be the truth. The more you think about your answers the more likely it will be something you think you should write, not the truth. Don’t cheat yourself – you’ll be using this analysis to increase your chances of getting the woman of your dreams. Of course, you can always go back and add more ideas to your notes later.
For you to find a woman with all the qualities you want, you first have to know about yourself.
I guarantee that if you know yourself, and what you want, women will be eager to be with you. If you carry yourself with confidence and show women that you are secure you will immediately attract women and capture their attention.
This chapter will lay the foundation for your future success with any woman you want. You deserve the best woman out there for you. If you are like most guys I know, you don’t have her yet. This means You Need a Plan. You may need a plan to find a woman, to improve your current girlfriend, or to replace the woman you have.
Any woman you’re with should bring out the best in you, love you, accept you, share the good times and stand by you through the bad times. Don’t settle for a second-rate girlfriend – be with a woman who makes you feel like a God!
Knowing who you are and what you want exudes personal power. You must figure out your game plan to get the woman you want. With this in mind pay close attention and don’t rush though this guide. There will be plenty of time in later for learning everything you need to know about approaching, talking to and seducing women.
Be patient and learn first about yourself. Once you know who you are, and what you want, you will be better equipped to look at what kinds of women you would likely connect with. We will then derive a description of her and a list of requirements she must fulfill before you give her further consideration.
You should not be wasting time with unworthy women.
Erik Creed
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