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Let us get one thing straight, without focus your chances to attracting women is a pretty low one.
What you think about and focus on is, inevitably, what you are going to get out of life. You have to think about new ideas, new goals and new women, or your mind and behavior will exhibit the old ideas, patterns and people.
If you don’t focus on and visualize the woman of your dreams and imagine ways of attracting her all the time, then you’ll probably end up meeting someone who resembles your last girlfriend, or worse!
Visualize how you’re going to go about attracting women before you even try attracting women.
Avoid thinking about what you don’t want. If you think about not wanting a boring lazy woman, and you focus on that, chances are you’ll be meeting more of them than any other kind of woman.
You must FOCUS on what you WANT in order to GET what you WANT. This applies to all aspects of your life not just women. If you just focus on obstacles you come across, instead of your ultimate goals, you’ll continue to have setbacks! You have to focus and think about what you want all the time.
Your First Impression
Within three minutes of meeting a woman, she woman will evaluate you, judge you and stereotype you by your first impression. You have to be capable of attracting women within 3 minutes of meeting women. Despite this being an unreasonable way to judge a person, women do this to almost every man she meets.
Make those first crucial minutes work FOR you, not against you. What is communicated and observed during your first few minutes meeting and attracting a woman will dictate your future relationship with that woman: you may become friends, lovers, or possibly remain strangers.
Do you Want to be a Good Guy or a Bad Guy?
Listen, it all depends on what you want, if you want sex then you need to be a bad guy and never let your emotions get on the way, but if you want love and if you want a girl to be honest with you when she tell’s you how much she loves you, then you need to be a good guy!
Bad Guy’s = Get Sex, and nothing more… they are being used…. and after sometime these popular bad guy’s with all the chicks become alcoholics or addicted to drugs, do to the depression that naturally comes after being used by chicks without any feelings attached… ( Believe me I’ve seen this happen many times to the most popular men! )
Good Guy’s = Get less sex, but are more happy… because they know that someone somewhere is thinking of them everyday… Also having sex with someone you love, feels like you’re having sex with 100 women alltogether you get maximum orgasm!
Our life on earth is a journey, where we are allways in the search of the questions we cannot seem to answer and all the unanswered questions keeps making us feel as if we only exist and die into nothingness, it can feel at times as if we were never born and only dream this life, which can make our stay on earth very lonely!
There has only been one thing proven to mankind which can beat the lonelyness forever, and it is LOVE my friend, just find it and you will FEEL it!
So how do you know if you have found “TRUE LOVE” well if you date a girl and the tears from your eyes starts to fall as soon as you look deep inside her eyes or as soon as her gentle skin touches you, then this is love and when you’re not with her you will see her beautiful eyes where ever you look, and you will be so afraid, afraid that you might someday lose the one you love, so all you will be willing to do will be to hold on tight to her and keep whispering in her ears how much you love her!
This feeling is what I call = “To Feel Heaven here on earth!”
But be warned my friend….
Before you jump into true love, make sure you can survive if something goes wrong…
If the one you love someday tells you that she doesn’t love you anymore or she goes away, you will feel the greatest of all pains, it will feel as if you had to die to survive….
The Joy Love brings is the greatest joy of all, and the sadness is the worst pain ever….
If you ask me this is a risk I would take, after all do you really know how much time you got left here on earth ?
We are all guilty of judging others based solely on their physical appearances, and our personal prejudices and shortcomings. As shallow as that may be, it’s true. You must use this judgment period to your advantage. This time is your most valuable opportunity to portray your most attractive qualities. The best way to make your first impression work for you is to adjust your physical appearance for greatest results.
Keep in mind focus is all it takes if your goal is to succeed at meeting and attracting women.
Erik Creed
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