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How to Strip for Your Man: Spice Your Relationship
How to Strip for your Man is simply a guide to help women strip for their guys. How to strip for your man offers tips on music, stripper wear, ambience and everything you need to know to strip like...
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How to Strip for your Man!
The title How to Strip for your Man is simply a guide to help women strip for their guys. How to strip for your man offers tips on music, stripper wear, ambience and everything you need to know to strip like a stripper.
Men enjoy going to strip clubs or gentlemen's clubs to have a drink and watch strange women get naked or near naked. The women aren't strange but strangers to the men most often. Men with girlfriends or wives can create a problem as she naturally wonders why he needs to see naked women when he has me.
One answer among many is you aren't a stripper and likely don't care to be a stripper. In fact you may find strippers to be naughty, nasty and well, strippers. In fact they are naughty, women who often look really sexy and arousing and they happen to be employed as strippers. While not all strippers are gorgeous, not all men are Brad Pitt, either, so there.
So what is the attraction between men, married, attached or not and strippers. Suffice it to say that strippers take their bras and sometimes panties off in a dark place with liquor and great music. Well to many men and even some women this sounds a lot like a party! Many, not all men love going to the strip club as the owners strive to make it a male adult paradise.
First it is naughty as men seeing women naked is well, a little to a lot of naughty.
Second the club is dark, often chrome and glass, the waitresses are often prettier than the dancers and again panties and bras come off all the time without asking or even begging.
This last fact is where we shall begin. Often wives and girlfriends have better things to do than taking their bra and panties off the minute he comes in the door. Fair enough but herein lies the rub. If he wants to see a sexy woman in her panties, bra and then neither he has his girlfriend or wife but usually stuff gets in the way, you know, silly stuff like paying bills, raising kids, family, cooking, cleaning, helping with homework. No wonder he wanders off from time to time to see the boobs and butts at the Bada Bing!
So either fight with him over the inappropriateness of it all or give him what he really wants- You!
If you decide to be a stripper for an hour or more likely a half hour then read on. If you want to be rightfully bitter at that man who you married or want to marry then seek counseling at the psychologists for $80.00 to $120.00 per hour. Gee don't I wish it were that simple! If the phrase "cheaper to keep her" has any truth then perhaps "better to get naked" is also appropriate.
1. Once you have decided that your man wanting to see women nude and near nude will not bring down modern civilization then ask him to take you to the strip club. Once he gets off the floor, insist that you two go to a strip club so you can see what outrageous antics go on there.
If you go you will agree that most strip clubs are sad affairs with single and married men sitting quietly sipping beers, ogling women and from time to time putting dollar bills in their thongs. Most all clubs strictly prohibit touching the girls and this is rigorously enforced as inspectors are often around. Some touching is allowed for table dances but again this depends on the club itself and local ordinances.
Don't be surprised if you see women who belong in beauty contests and women who don't. Many can't dance but they don't have to dance, just sashay about, shake their butts and breasts and well, that are often more than enough. Men generally behave with respect to the girls and hefty bouncers arrive out of nowhere if the girls are in anyway threatened.
2. Choose appropriate music for your debut as a stripper and it can be a favorite mix tape, cd or radio station although generally since you cannot control the music the station is usually not a great idea. Choose music that moves you as you will be dancing to it and it helps to really enjoy the music to get and keep your mind off the fact that you will be nearly nude and progressively nuder- is that a word?
3. Lighting- The softer the better as you want to look flawless and harsh lights are no girl's friend. You may have to move some lighting around from other parts of your house but the little extra effort is well worth it.
4. Make Up- Perhaps you have never noticed it but performers wear a lot, I mean a lot of heavy makeup. Perhaps you aren't that into it but at least make yourself up like you are going to a party or an evening event. Hair, makeup, perfume are all necessary. Perhaps some false eyelashes will work and you can find them at the local drug store.
5. Stripper Wear- Here you either need to purchase some stripper wear or improvise. What do strippers wear? Thongs, thongs and more thongs! Soft cup bras that have side tie strings. High heels that are at least 4 inches high and no lower. Stockings are a huge hit as they are classic, sexy and come off easily. You don't have to spend a lot of money but don't wear granny panties or your old lingerie outfit. A sexy lace bra and matching panties will do just fine and you can and should wear them to work on Monday.
6. Shaving- Shave down there- Enough said! At least make sure there are no wild hairs to spoil the images.
Finally buy a cd on how to strip or spend some time dancing in front of the mirror. The advantage many strippers have is they just don't care what the audience thinks. If you are self conscious in front of your man then this is an excellent way to get over it. Practice how you will dance, how you will take your bra off as well as your panties and how to move in general. Perhaps you will need a drink or two, many strippers do, but don't overdo it as you know the consequences, don't you?
Practice dipping, crawling on the floor, taking off your stockings, dancing with your hands and arms in the air. If you feel a little silly then you are normal but understand how much fun he and in turn you will have. Let yourself get into the act and it will go much better.
You won't be an expert the first time or even the second time but stripping, done right can be a very sensuous, arousing experience for both of you. Knowing you are turning him on will likely turn you on, so get it on and give him a weekend that the both of you won't forget.
Shaving your Pubic Hair Enhances your Relationship!
Shaving your pubic hair enhances your relationship in a number of ways. Women and men are shaving their pubic hair and the reasons vary but most surround enhanced self esteem and a desire to be more sexually desirable. What may have started as a fad has turned into a lifetime trend that is beneficial to both men and women.
While many may ask why would a woman or a man bother to shave their pubic hair in the first place. The better question may be what took women in particular to discover this act of pubic hair shaving?
Let's consider the obvious. Women shave their legs, underarms and if they have dark facial hair they very often have it removed permanently or struggle with having it removed periodically. In our society as opposed to many other cultures body hair is discouraged without reservations. Also women have shaved or used creams or waxing in the bikini area. The bikini area is simply a politically correct way of describing the pubic region but does not go all the way to pubic hair removal only to keep pubic hair from peeking out from her bikini panty or panties.
So why did women take so long to shave their pubic region? The likely answer is the pubic region is a sexual area as opposed to an underarm or legs. The pubic region is not ever seen by others in public and the need to shave it was largely ignored.
Pubic hair is thought to have no purpose and historically was thought to retain odors that were meant to stimulate the opposite sex much like a pheromone although that determination is likely unknown to the vast majority of adults. So in light of that why not shave down there? A likely reason is women grow hair in the pubic region when they begin menstruating and thus pass from children to adulthood.
Prior to that girls are without hair and still regarded as children, at least throughout time. More recently the issue of becomming a woman is a bit more complicated than that and the transition to woman hood is not likely a reason for not shaving. In all likelihood most women don't shave their pubic regions as their mothers and their mothers before them simply never gave any thought to this idea. Likely many older women never have and never will shave their pubic regions. The idea of shaving there is one for this generation alone.
So now that women and many men have discovered the practice, what is the allure? Shaving the pubic region is both a sexual act as well as a step towards better hygiene. Many believe that shaving her pubic hair completely or leaving a landing strip, a V, heart, wisp of hair all draw attention to her pubic region and thus has an unusual look, cleaner look and one that her partner may or may not enjoy.
While most surveys I have seen seem to indicate that most men favor a woman with a shaved or cropped look. That is not to say that many men and women are not ardent fans of the hairy look. Personally I shave and the unruly, hairy look is distasteful.
Men have taken up the practice in some cases and while the reasons vary although one reason that comes up often is that a shaved pubic region makes him appear larger which is a strong incentive to shave off those pubes. Many men and women simply prefer the clean, shaved look although it takes a little getting used to.
- Cheryl Dodd is an author who writes about relationships, sexuality and sexy trends. She is the owner of a lingerie site and boutique. She owns Flirtylingerie.com at http://www.flirtylingerie.com and writes about lingerie and stripper wear . "Sexy stockings complete a woman's outfit, costume and sexy skirts. Sexy stockings in fishnet or sheer are sexy stockings that can be worn with or without a garter belt. Sexy stockings are thigh high stockings that women wear with mini skirts, skirts and costumes among other garments."
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