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Online dating: Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend
"Even if you think you know him well, this is the reality: your boyfriend equals mystery. There is so much that you actually do not now about him that the questions to ask are a lot, specific and..."
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Online dating: Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend.
Even if you think you know him well, this is the reality: your boyfriend equals mystery. There is so much that you actually do not now about him that the questions to ask are a lot, specific and possibly intimate. You'll be surprised.
The fact is that not every boyfriend will be willing answer your questions for the reason being that they might be hard to confess.
Sometimes, it is hard speak about the past of anything that could interfere with the present relationship and make it change in the future.
A few good examples of questions to ask your boyfriend might be:
Who are your ex girlfriends, (if any) and what made the relationship end as it did? What have you learned form life that makes you who you are today? What are your plans (goals) for the future?
Questioning about his personal life experiences (both public and private) are what going to reveal an important part of who your boyfriend actually is.
When it comes to more serious and delicate questioning, you might want to ask about his best kept secrets. These deep questions usually have to do with his more intimate side and they are more likely to be considered the "hard questions".
This is the side that not everybody would like to speak about because they have to do more with the truth, and sometimes, the truth hurts. He wouldn't be keeping secrets just for the fun of it.
The answers to these types of questions (get to know you questions) can really help you see how your boyfriend has changed over the years (who was he back then, who is he now, and how he might be in the future).
Any other interesting questions to ask your boyfriend will depend on many other things such as: the relationship itself, the personal interest of each, etc, and these questions can vary from being romantic, to silly or just to simply ask.
The questions to ask your boyfriend might influence other positive or negative factors that can possibly change the relationship for better or worse depending on the reaction of both to the answers of those questions.
If true love and understanding exist with in the relationship, it is more likely to accept all of the positive and negative responses that you might react to. If love and understanding does not exist, then there is a higher chance for the relationship to have future problems and conflicts.
Questions before marriage:
This is the inevitable truth: "The right questions before marriage determine the right success within marriage."
Choosing the correct questions before marriage will depend on each person because everyone has a different point of view of what we call relationships.
We can compare this by saying that many people might not see marriage as a beautiful experience if they just been through a divorce, the same way that many cannot see divorce as a harsh experience if they're just getting married.
Individuals will choose their questions and answers depending on their experiences, and these experiences are what going to determine what they believe is correct or incorrect. Depending on each individual's background is what going to determine their 100 questions before marriage.
However, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but not everyone is entitled to their own fact. The same way that everyone has their own truth about marriage and relationships, but not everyone has the correct universal truth about both. The universal truth itself can be recognized by perfection because imperfection leads to disorder, chaos, and the unstable way of living life.
Not everybody believes that marriage and relationships are meant to be perfect, for if they did, this world would be a different yet better place. There would be no divorce, no infidelity, no venereal diseases, no abortion, etc. The world will indeed change, if the perspective of those who ignore the truth change. The truth itself is ignored because those who know about the truth find it difficult to put into practice.
A good example is the following:
Many couples in premarital relationships know that abstinence can prevent a large number of possible consequences that can drastically change the life of three human beings (the two people involved in the situation, and the possible child that come as a result of the same). However, not everyone puts abstinence into practice because they find it very hard to stay away from lust, physical attraction and fleshly desire.
So, what are the most important questions before marriage?
The only way that we can identify these questions is through knowledge, and knowledge itself can come from learning. Learning can be acquired through personal experience, literature, and the life of other people. Being able to have an open mind and not only focusing on what we believe is correct will indeed open our eyes to the real world of what is truth. The truth itself will let us know what are the correct questions before marriage.
How to Talk Sweet to a Boyfriend.
Has your boyfriend ever (in true sincerity) flattered you, complimented you, etc., to the point where you just felt you could burst from all the love and affection sent your way? Did it make you feel truly appreciated, loved, and paid attention to?
Actually, guys like that sort of thing, too. They might not be looking for it in quite the same way, but they like compliments and they like to be flattered (sincerely) by the ones they love. If this is something you haven't tried with your boyfriend before, try it. You'll be surprised how much he'll like it, and will open up to you.
One basic rule about compliments and flattery before we begin
There's really one rule about flattering your boyfriend or saying something sweet about him, and that is that you have to be honest. It might work a time or two if you try to do this without sincerity, but it's not going to last. Number one, you are being dishonest, and that's never a good way to establish a relationship. And number two, he's likely to find out, which is going to cause some very hurt feelings. So be truthful all the time, even with flattery.
Things to focus on.
Take a look at your sweetie for a second (even if he's not right there; surely you can conjure him up in your mind's eye). What are some of the things that attracted you to him in the first place? Is he good looking? Does he have a good sense of humor? Does he treat you well, bring you surprises that you weren't expecting but appreciate, etc.?
Take a moment to jot down everything you like about your boyfriend. It can be anything. Brainstorm.
Now, here's where your compliments and flattery are going to come from. (And trust me, guys like to hear this; they just don't show it.) And, oh, yes; there's another rule, too.
Don't just "pile it on."
Compliments and flattery work best when they're used regularly but sparingly; you want to do this often enough that your guy feels really special and appreciated, but not so often that it will sound fake or that it will lose its impact.
Some examples of "talking sweet" to your boyfriend.
Take that list of things that you really like about your boyfriend and that you wrote down earlier. Let's say that he's got the most amazing smile you've ever seen. So, next time you kiss him and he gives you that amazing smile, say something like, "I just love the way you smile at me; I can't get over it." He's likely to blush (especially if you haven't done this before), but he'll be really pleased.
Or, let's say that he's really, really thoughtful and is always paying attention to something you need, even if it's not particularly romantic in the traditional sense. Let's say that you've got this leaky faucet in your kitchen, and one day he simply shows up with tools and fixes it without your even asking him to. Now, isn't that sweet? It might not be flowers, true, but he's really showing you that he cares and that he's paying attention to what you want or need.
So if you know that, you can say something like, "That was so thoughtful of you to do that; you are the greatest guy ever. I'm so lucky." He'll feel very, very lucky that he's got a great woman like you who really pays attention to the fact that he cares about you. (And a lot of women don't, you know, so this is something that's really important.)
And that's it; try it on a regular basis. A little well-placed honest flattery based upon what you like best about your guy will have him "swooning" as much about you as you do about him. (Even if for him, "swooning" means that he blushes, clears his throat, and stares at the floor. That's "swooning" in guy talk, and he loves it.)
- Find out more about relationships by visiting 100QuestionsBeforeMarriage.com. Blog where many important post about questions to ask your boyfriend and questions to get to know someone are published. (This article was written by one of our guest authors.)
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